When me and my girlfriend decided to enter into a relationship, we both knew that long distance was in our future but we knew we would be strong enough to handle anything that got in the way. Now, she is currently doing Teach for America in Memphis, Tennessee, and I am still at Central Michigan. When you want something to work though, you make the sacrifices necessary, and we are doing just that. How do we keep the adventure and connection alive?
We make sure to text each other everyday even though both of our schedules are hectic. Open communication is essential for a healthy relationship. On top of texting, we have set aside Sunday night to make sure we Skype. Time management is critical because you have to make time for each other. I just sent out my first letter to Alyssa this morning - we are committed to sending a handwritten letter every two weeks because who doesn't love getting mail! Starting this week, we are also going to be reading a chapter a week of "A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius" to share something through distance and be able to discuss the book with each other. There are so many ways to "be together" even through 750 miles. I miss her everyday, but I know eventually we will be able to be in the same place. When that time comes, we will have a much deeper appreciation of time together and have a stronger relationship. <3
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